Day 136 – Abigail & Nabal

• Today’s stories provide a nice change in David’s story from the relentless actions of King Saul. It may have been a story that was completely new to you, so I hope you enjoyed reading it.
• After hearing that Samuel is now dead, the author takes no time turning to the story of Abigail and her husband Nabal. Who was Nabal? What sort of things do we learn about him as the story opens?
• What did David’s send his men to Nabal to ask? David’s men had done many good things for for Nabal’s men, such as those we read about in 1 Samuel 25:7. David there assumed that Nabal may respond to their requests favourably.
• How did Nabal respond? Pay careful attention. Nabal doesn’t just say “no” (which might have been a reasonable thing on its own) but, in verses 10-11, is rude and full of contempt for David. He speaks rather like Deog did in the story we read about him a few days ago.
• David is furious, isn’t he! Check out his vow in 1 Samuel 25:22! As he begins preparations to attack, how does Nabal’s wife Abigail hear about the plan?
• How does Abigail respond wisely to the situation? Does it look like Abigail disrespects her husband, or just disagrees with his handling of this particular situation?
• How does Abigail approach David? She carefully presents her situation to David to calm him down and reason with him. What clever things does she say?
• What good things can we see in David’s reaction and attitude?
• David vows to reverse his previous curse on Nabal’s house. What does this mean for David? Focus on verse 33 to help guide your thinking.
• What happens to both Abigail and Nabal as the story wraps up towards the end of the chapter?
• The word “Nabal” means fool. What does Psalm 14 days about fools?
• Many characteristics of fools are listed in the passages in Proverbs. Which of them are particularly relevant to this situation?

Fools can come in all shapes and sizes, and it’s important to remember that we can be fools sometimes, both in our actions, our thoughts and the way we speak. Can you think of a situation where you have been a fool, especially in regards to turning away from God or not considering Him? What if you had a time machine and could re-live the situation again. What would you change? If appropriate, could you consider how Abigail defused a tense situation with wisdom and think how you might have acted more wisely yourself?

David showed his kingly attributes and credentials in the way he responded to Abigail. People knew he was destined to be a king and acted accordingly. People probably know you’re a Christian. Do you act accordingly? Or do your friends look at you and see hypocritical behaviour?

It’s Saturday. This may be a good day to think about spending time in prayer, asking for wisdom and strength in areas where you have previously been foolish.

PS: We’re reading a lot of psalms at the moment so I’ve attached a video outlining the book of Psalms generally, if you’re interested in learning more!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5pmPq7p1sT4